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Middle School Tips

It’s a big deal. Your child is leaving the comfortable and safe haven of elementary school for new and uncharted territory – middle school. Not since starting kindergarten, has your child made such an important transition in his or her educational journey. Research shows that students transitioning from elementary to middle school often experience a decline in grades, motivation, self-esteem and self-confidence, making it crucial that parents stay involved.1 Even as your child wants more space and personal freedom, he or she still needs your guidance, craves your approval and benefits from your involvement. Here are a few tips for a successful transition for your child and for you.

  • Explain that middle school is different – increased homework, changing classes – but also an exciting time filled with new opportunities.
  • On registration day, let your child be in charge by carrying his or her own books, reading directions and leading you in what to do next. This will give your student a feeling of ownership and accomplishment.
  • Read the handbook with your student, making sure he or she understands the rules and procedures.
  • Help your child get and stay organized. Use an assignment folder and calendar to keep track of important deadlines and have a specific place in your home for bookbags, school supplies and important papers.
  • Help your child develop good study skills and learn to manage time wisely. Planning ahead will help your child not to feel stressed or overwhelmed.
  • Give your student plenty of opportunities to practice good decision-making at home. Letting your child make decisions (and maybe even a few mistakes) at home and then talking with him or her about the outcome will develop wisdom and confidence.
  • Middle school is a peak time for students to bully and be bullied, whether at school or online. Be aware of personality changes and mood swings. Ask questions and stay involved.
  • They may be older, but middle school students still need lots of sleep, exercise and a balanced diet.
  • Spend time with and enjoy your middle school student. Take time to be a parent, good role model and encourager. Treasure time together and love your child unconditionally.

1. Making the Transition to Middle School. Mentoring Resource Center Fact Sheet. November 24, 2008. US Department of Education Office of Safe and Drug-Free Schools. http://educationnorthwest.org/webfm_send/207 Retrieved August 26, 2011.